Written by
David M. Jacobson, MSW
First printed in
Health Beat Quarterly Magazine, Fall 1997 Issue
We all are aware of the stress response, the "fight or flight syndrome."
The physiological changes that occur when we are under stress provide the
body with the
instant energy it needs to move quickly to fight or run, as our ancestors
did for survival. Today we experience these same results, but we do not
usually have the
options of running or fighting. It's a fact that negative emotions
and emotional reactions to the negative things that happen to us cause
harmful physical effects. Stress
causes physiological effects: heart rate increases, blood pressure
goes up, stomach acids increase, the ability to digest food decreases,
muscle tension increases, the
ability to tolerate pain decreases, the oxygen in the blood decreases,
breathing becomes shallower...your personality becomes shallower, your
chances of winning the
lottery decreases...it's just a terrible mess all around! Constant
stress can cause negative reactions, such as lowering our resistance to
disease or infections. The
negative effects can happen whenever we have negative thoughts and
feelings. Our minds are very powerful. People have had heart attacks just
by working
themselves up into a frenzy of negative, fearful or angry thoughts.
Any perceived threat can initiate the stress response.
This can range from someone screaming in your face to having to speak
in front of a group.
There is a powerful relationship between how you perceive what is happening
to you (the threat) and what is going on biochemically in your body.
Laughter is the antidote to the stress response.
Research shows that people who laugh heartily on a regular basis have
lower standing blood pressures than the average American. When we have
a hearty laugh,
our blood pressure initially increases and then decreases below normal
levels. Our breathing becomes deeper, sending oxygen-enriched blood and
nutrients
throughout the body. With laughter, endorphins and other natural pain-relieving
hormones are released , improving our ability to tolerate pain. Our ability
to digest
food also improves. So you are not only what you eat, but what you
think and feel. Research indicates that the benefits of laughter occur
as early as a smile.
How can we bring more smiles and laughter into our lives?
Try one of these humor strategies:
1. Joel Goodman, founder and Director of the Humor Project in Saratoga
Springs, N.Y. suggests making a joy list: Put down five things you love
to do, but have not
done in a long time. This could be resuming former hobbies or contacting/meeting
people whom you have not seen in awhile. Choose two things on that list
that you
plan to do, and write down a date and time when you will do the activities.
2. Create a humor library. Collect humorous memos, bumper stickers,
books, cassettes and videos. Next time you are feeling a little down, read,
listen and view.
Think about someone whom you consider fun to be around. What makes
that person attractive? Along with mental alertness and positive attitude,
a large part of
your answer will lie in good humor and sense of playfulness. Humor
is an excellent tool to use on your path in life. Approaching life's aggravations
with humor has
fewer harmful side effect, for humor can release feelings of hostility
and at the same time provide an acceptable means of expressing and decompressing
these
feelings in an appropriate way.
3. Get to know what amuses you. Who are your favorite comedians? What
types of humor do you like? For some it's political humor... "When two
politicians
accuse each other of lying...they're both telling the truth", others
like nonsense ... "What does a 300 pound canary say?... CHURP!!!", still
others like philosophical
humor ... "I don't believe in an afterlife, but I'm bringing a spare
pair of underwear just in case.". Put on your humor glasses and you are
more likely to notice
humorous occurrences that would have passed you by otherwise.
4. Overcome your "fear of foolishness." C.W. Metcalf and R. Felible
authors of "Lighten Up: Survival Skills for People Under Pressure," suggests
that when an
embarrassing moment happens to you, choose to see it as a humorous
incident. This will prevent the negative physiological effects that will
occur if you view the
event as a life threat ("I was so embarrassed I wish I were dead").
Take the risk of sharing the incident with others and nine out of ten times
they will see the humor
and thank you for sharing it.
Humor is the healthiest coping mechanism you can use to deal with the
absurdities of life. I used humor to literally get back on my feet after
a
diagnosis of severe arthritis. If you lose hope and are taken over
by fear, you become helpless. If you use humor and focus on a positive
outlook you
can get through anything. You can learn to use humor like Judo, fending
off attacks from a different angle. When the arthritis attacked, humor
was
my defense.
Remember, if something is thrown at you and you meet it straight on
, you will fall backward. This is true for any "problem" that attacks you.
If you
have a good sense of humor you can slide to the side and look at it
from a different perspective. Humor is not a cure-all, but the positive
emotions
brought on by humor and a good laugh can have a positive effect on
your overall wellness.
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